i want to meet up with you and see if you can pick me out of the crowd.then go somewhere we can discover what attracts us to one another

Getting together to know each other, I believe in instant chemistry attraction, like in The Movie Sea Of Love with Ellen Barkin and Al Pacino..

First date can be a nice meet and greet at a nice wine place were we talk and gdt to know each other better

A laid back bar with nice drinks and chill music. Good conversation. Maybe throw in a movie or something too.

Okay. Quickly. It's been a long time. Too long. So perhaps we can dispense with the formalities and move to the next level? Kissing would be a great start.

Sitting in a quiet enough setting to chat, share a drink and talk about life and music we don't get and laugh about the ones we do. Keep the mood light, inquisitive and fun.

Lol I had to click on this because what the hell is an interracial wine bar ;) this website is weird, is it even real?

First have a conversation for awhile online, get to know what expectations are at hand. Maybe can meet for cocktails and dinner. I love laughter and fun (DRAMA NOT WELCOME)

A bottle of red wine to see if there's a chemistry between the two of us, with the potential of arranging a second date

A nice causal setting where we can meet and greet. Let you dress up for me. Get to know each other. Introduce my Dom side a little.

Have drinks and listen to some good live music, talk about what we have in common for as long as we want to be together then plan what we want to do next!

Have a very good conversation over coffee in a nice and quite coffee bar. Keep it as simple as possible.

Basically anything that involves mutual cooperation. From a romantic lunch to a game of pool or feeding animals. Whatever that creates a flow of conversation.

What the hell is an interracial wine bar?? America sort your life's out, send me over a wife while you're at it.

Having a glass of wine & see if it turns into dinner. I like art museums or anything crafty. A nice walk around the park would be nice as well to see if it ends up being a second date.